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Tuesday, November 22, 2011

August Bender’s 3rd Birthday 11/27/2011 - Poem

How can it be, August is now three?
As tall as a tree he is not,
Taller than when he was two it is for sure!

Ever growing in mind, body and spirit,
Leaving behind some of those old toddler ways,
While showing signs of nearing pre-schooler status.

With a will of his strong-minded anscestry,
And a facility to physically engage his world,
He’s laying stepping stones that define his future.

With blond curly hair, like mom and dad once had,
August marks a presence both unique and alluring,
While entering the 4th year of his evolving life.

What’s on the horizon?
A sibling in the making it appears to be,
Further enriching August’s developmental path.

Happy Birthday August!

Grandpa Bender

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Steve Jobs Quote

“Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything---all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure---these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving what is truly important. Remembering you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.”

Steven Jobs...part of his Stanford commencement speech in 2005

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Claude Williams - Poem


















More than fifty years have elapsed since Claude and I first met,
During those innocent times at Ellsworth Junior College.

Standing 6’ 6” in all, the most gifted athlete I ever played with
or competed against on the basketball court.

As an elementary school teacher,
He became one of the most exceptional in the Los Angeles system.

A seeker he was, evidenced by venturing into owning a trucking rig,
And developing his interests in owning and breeding horses.

Through the years, he’s held a special place in my life and soul,
Cementing a brotherly bond, unmatched by my own blood brothers.

Opening his home and family for support and comfort,
During the darkest periods of my life.

Now in the throes of physical and mental decline,
Heightened by a stroke, and relegated to a nursing home.

In the doings of his daughter Jennifer’s wedding,
A current day reunion took place in Dana Point, California.

Reminiscing held special appeal, though lacking some clarity,
Yet validating his special place in my life journey,

Thank you Claude for the love and support you have bestowed on me,
I am forever grateful and humbled by you and your family.

“Odie”

11/12/2011